An Interview with : Mistress Bella.
Please tell us how you wish to be addressed?
Mistress Bella or MsBella
What do you consider to be your greatest feature?
My eyes n smile
The best advice you have ever gotten was ?
Always look forward never look back.
You are totally addicted to?
BDSM
You never leave home with out?
My mobile n keys and boots on my feet.
You wish you could be more?
Patient.
How long have you been in the lifestyle?
6yrs
Would you consider your childhood a normal one?
Not really my dad was a dominant male with attitude prob with women he still to this day treats my mother as his personal slave because of this I don’t speak 2 either of them. Watching my mother being a slave sickens me as he publicly humiliates her. It goes against everything I believe in.
Tell us about your first experience Femdom experience. Please share details of how you felt?
Was with a guy who called himself a master but I ended up Doming him and he couldn’t handle it. As I’m a dominant female it came naturally to me so I pursued to live the lifestyle and have never looked back. My 1st session out of my training was with a pain slave he was extreme the more I whipped him the harder he wanted it till I basically drew blood. The site of him so hopeless and battered and smiling at me made me realise that helping men explore their kinks n fetishes n feelings was truly what I wanted in life it was awesome.
What was the last book you read?
A Kink E magazine
Do you have a favourite movie?
Preaching to the perverted and kinky boots
Do you consider yourself a Pro Domme or lifestyle domme or a combination of both?
I'm a 24/7 Lifestyle/Professional FemDomme.
If you had to pick one word that describes the feeling you get when you are domming someone what would that word be?
Exhilarating
What is your general view of men?
Most are low life disrespectful individuals who need to be taught their place in the scheme of life.
Was there a particular moment that you can recall when you realized the power you had over men?
Yes was with a teenage boyfriend and I realised I could get men to do anything I wanted, lol.
Does dominating another bring you sexual pleasure? If so how and why?
Yes and No. I don’t have sex with my business clients my limit with them is oral slaves. My private stable is very different I have a playtoy sub that takes care of my personal needs. Domming men is more an intellectual thing with me rather than sexual as I love having the power over them.
Do you have a day job?
I'm a Professional Dominatrix.
How does your day job affect your Femdom lifestyle?
I'm living the FemDomme lifestyle.
How does your Female supremacy views affect your attitude at work?
Always in charge of the situation.
Does your family know of your lifestyle?
Yes they and all my friends think its great I'm accepted into the vanilla world for what I am and Do.
Do you have friends in the lifestyle?
Yes many.
Do have vanilla friends that know of your FemDom desires?
Yes I’m out the closet every1 knows what I am and do my family where confused at 1st but now they are Proud of me and what I am and do.
If your favourite vanilla girlfriend were to ask you why she should try dominating her man.. what reasons you would share with her?
This one is hard as don’t have any real vanilla friends. I did have a discussion with a close friend recently and she ended up joining the society as she is now my trainee Domme her b/f is supporting her decision.
Have you ever been to play party?
Yes.
Have you played in Public before?
Yes my local small supermarket love me , lol.
Do you dominate or humiliate in Public?
Yes frequently. I love humiliating rude men in public.
What is the biggest mistake a submissive man makes when first approaching a dominant woman?
Addressing her improperly and not understanding terms related to BDSM.
When you read an email from a new submissive what do you look for?
How he addresses me and his attitude. If its I want this and I want that it tells me he isn’t a sub and is demanding so avoid.
Do you currently have a slave or submissive?
Yes I do 2 stables 1 private 1 business
Are you seeking other slaves?
Yes I am.
Are you straight or bi-sexual?
Straight.
Do you prefer your slaves to be bi-sexual?
Yes I do have a preference for bi subs/slave/sissy.
What rules do you require a slave to live by? sitting on furniture, walking behind you, calling in, chastity … as examples?
Must always walk behind Me with head down. Must always sit on the floor on knees unless otherwise instructed. If another Domme is present, greet Her accordingly then keep head down, do not speak unless spoken to and be on best behaviour. When a request or demand is made, quickly reply "Yes Mistress" and get to it.
What is your favourite activity?
CBT
Do you feminize your servants?
Yes I have 2 sissys in doing sissyifcation with.
Does your domination apply to all levels of your relationship......for example do you or would you control all the money?
I’m single but when married yes I controlled everything.
Do you cuckold your submissive with other lovers?
I have done in the past.
Do you live a fulltime Femdom lifestyle?
Yes I do.
If you have a fulltime relationship would you say that your relationship is stronger than a normal vanilla relationship?
I’m Single but yes a Domme/slave relationship is far superior to anything vanilla.
When a disagreement occurs how does it get resolved? Is your word the final word regardless?
Yes with all my subs n slaves my decision is final and no I’ve had no conflict with any of my boys.
So you like to set benchmarks for a male to prove his desire for you?
Yes.
Do you judge a slave willingness to embarrass himself as prove of his desire to serve you?
Yes a sub will do anything to prove that if he is a true submissive.
What advice would you give a woman who husbands has just asked her to dominate him? and She knows nothing of lifestyle ?
Join FemDomme Society and Do Domme Uni as I thought it was great for those just getting into it also tell her to start exploring.
How do you discipline?
Harsh but fair. my my fav is whipping.
Do you use chastity?
Yes I do.
Do you control his orgasms?
Yes.
Do use strap ons?
Yes and toys.
What do the next five years hold for you?
Hopefully will find the slave of my dreams.
Please share with your fears when you first got started?
I was worried about how ppl would react when they found out what I was and did but when I came out every1 was so supportive and encouraging.
Any words of encouragement you may have for that new Domme out there?
Do training if you can and always keep up2 date with what’s going on in the scene and explore.
Thank you!!!!!
Mistress Bella or MsBella
What do you consider to be your greatest feature?
My eyes n smile
The best advice you have ever gotten was ?
Always look forward never look back.
You are totally addicted to?
BDSM
You never leave home with out?
My mobile n keys and boots on my feet.
You wish you could be more?
Patient.
How long have you been in the lifestyle?
6yrs
Would you consider your childhood a normal one?
Not really my dad was a dominant male with attitude prob with women he still to this day treats my mother as his personal slave because of this I don’t speak 2 either of them. Watching my mother being a slave sickens me as he publicly humiliates her. It goes against everything I believe in.
Tell us about your first experience Femdom experience. Please share details of how you felt?
Was with a guy who called himself a master but I ended up Doming him and he couldn’t handle it. As I’m a dominant female it came naturally to me so I pursued to live the lifestyle and have never looked back. My 1st session out of my training was with a pain slave he was extreme the more I whipped him the harder he wanted it till I basically drew blood. The site of him so hopeless and battered and smiling at me made me realise that helping men explore their kinks n fetishes n feelings was truly what I wanted in life it was awesome.
What was the last book you read?
A Kink E magazine
Do you have a favourite movie?
Preaching to the perverted and kinky boots
Do you consider yourself a Pro Domme or lifestyle domme or a combination of both?
I'm a 24/7 Lifestyle/Professional FemDomme.
If you had to pick one word that describes the feeling you get when you are domming someone what would that word be?
Exhilarating
What is your general view of men?
Most are low life disrespectful individuals who need to be taught their place in the scheme of life.
Was there a particular moment that you can recall when you realized the power you had over men?
Yes was with a teenage boyfriend and I realised I could get men to do anything I wanted, lol.
Does dominating another bring you sexual pleasure? If so how and why?
Yes and No. I don’t have sex with my business clients my limit with them is oral slaves. My private stable is very different I have a playtoy sub that takes care of my personal needs. Domming men is more an intellectual thing with me rather than sexual as I love having the power over them.
Do you have a day job?
I'm a Professional Dominatrix.
How does your day job affect your Femdom lifestyle?
I'm living the FemDomme lifestyle.
How does your Female supremacy views affect your attitude at work?
Always in charge of the situation.
Does your family know of your lifestyle?
Yes they and all my friends think its great I'm accepted into the vanilla world for what I am and Do.
Do you have friends in the lifestyle?
Yes many.
Do have vanilla friends that know of your FemDom desires?
Yes I’m out the closet every1 knows what I am and do my family where confused at 1st but now they are Proud of me and what I am and do.
If your favourite vanilla girlfriend were to ask you why she should try dominating her man.. what reasons you would share with her?
This one is hard as don’t have any real vanilla friends. I did have a discussion with a close friend recently and she ended up joining the society as she is now my trainee Domme her b/f is supporting her decision.
Have you ever been to play party?
Yes.
Have you played in Public before?
Yes my local small supermarket love me , lol.
Do you dominate or humiliate in Public?
Yes frequently. I love humiliating rude men in public.
What is the biggest mistake a submissive man makes when first approaching a dominant woman?
Addressing her improperly and not understanding terms related to BDSM.
When you read an email from a new submissive what do you look for?
How he addresses me and his attitude. If its I want this and I want that it tells me he isn’t a sub and is demanding so avoid.
Do you currently have a slave or submissive?
Yes I do 2 stables 1 private 1 business
Are you seeking other slaves?
Yes I am.
Are you straight or bi-sexual?
Straight.
Do you prefer your slaves to be bi-sexual?
Yes I do have a preference for bi subs/slave/sissy.
What rules do you require a slave to live by? sitting on furniture, walking behind you, calling in, chastity … as examples?
Must always walk behind Me with head down. Must always sit on the floor on knees unless otherwise instructed. If another Domme is present, greet Her accordingly then keep head down, do not speak unless spoken to and be on best behaviour. When a request or demand is made, quickly reply "Yes Mistress" and get to it.
What is your favourite activity?
CBT
Do you feminize your servants?
Yes I have 2 sissys in doing sissyifcation with.
Does your domination apply to all levels of your relationship......for example do you or would you control all the money?
I’m single but when married yes I controlled everything.
Do you cuckold your submissive with other lovers?
I have done in the past.
Do you live a fulltime Femdom lifestyle?
Yes I do.
If you have a fulltime relationship would you say that your relationship is stronger than a normal vanilla relationship?
I’m Single but yes a Domme/slave relationship is far superior to anything vanilla.
When a disagreement occurs how does it get resolved? Is your word the final word regardless?
Yes with all my subs n slaves my decision is final and no I’ve had no conflict with any of my boys.
So you like to set benchmarks for a male to prove his desire for you?
Yes.
Do you judge a slave willingness to embarrass himself as prove of his desire to serve you?
Yes a sub will do anything to prove that if he is a true submissive.
What advice would you give a woman who husbands has just asked her to dominate him? and She knows nothing of lifestyle ?
Join FemDomme Society and Do Domme Uni as I thought it was great for those just getting into it also tell her to start exploring.
How do you discipline?
Harsh but fair. my my fav is whipping.
Do you use chastity?
Yes I do.
Do you control his orgasms?
Yes.
Do use strap ons?
Yes and toys.
What do the next five years hold for you?
Hopefully will find the slave of my dreams.
Please share with your fears when you first got started?
I was worried about how ppl would react when they found out what I was and did but when I came out every1 was so supportive and encouraging.
Any words of encouragement you may have for that new Domme out there?
Do training if you can and always keep up2 date with what’s going on in the scene and explore.
Thank you!!!!!