Session definitions.
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Female Dominant (Dominatrix, Mistress):
For you novices and newbies this means, quite simply, that a strong, and commanding female dominates you for the duration of your session. The level of domination and discipline that you require from your Mistress varies (extremely) from one person to the next.
There is a common naive perception out there amongst ‘non-scene' people that a Dominatrix simply beats, whips or bludgeons her submissives out of sheer contempt for them. This is so untrue! Of course there are some submissives may delight in having this kind of a session - but generally they are not hugely popular.
A Mistress can take you on a kinky journey of erotic tease that will make your toes curl and the hair stand up on the back of your neck. It can be the most erotically intense experience without marking you or causing you any pain whatsoever. You may leave your session just as this or have elements of pain, restraint, humiliation and role play introduced. It is completely up to you. My aim is not simply to cause pain and discomfort but to use them as a medium to take you on an intense sexual journey.
You should be honest and always remember to communicate with your Mistress each and every time you have a session with Her. There may be times when She cannot always read your mind and so you will need to discuss your needs and requirements. Grovel at Her feet and beg Her to listen to your suggestions if that makes you feel more comfortable. It won't affect the mood and She is extremely open-minded. Remember that if you are embarrassed to ask Her something She has more than likely encountered and acted on that same request countless times before with other submissives.
Above all, remember that you should always be respectful towards your Mistress. If you become an annoyance or treat Her disrespectfully in any way She will not be amused!
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Erotic Tease & Sensual Play (Sexual Teasing):
If you want to awaken your senses and experience something kinky but on the lighter side you might want to go for this. A Mistress will tease and tantalise you while you are lightly bound to our bondage bed. This is a great way for novices to be introduced to BDSM through light restraint and all sorts of other optional activities such as light spanking, light anal play, ice and/or hot wax, tickling, light scratching/biting/pinching etc. etc. Of course you are not obliged or compelled to partake in any BDSM activities at all if you wish & simply opt for a sensual tease. This is equally enjoyable for serious players who fancy a change every now and again.
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SAFE SEX & HYGIENE - ABSOLUTELY ALWAYS!!!
Inserting dildos, vibrators or butt plugs into any orifice are covered with a condom first and lubricant applied prior to insertion. I Always wear latex gloves for these purposes and also for fingering or fisting oral dams are used for oral servitude. The last thing I want is the inability of my submissive to relax because he is worried about safe sex or hygiene practices.
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Corporal Punishment (Whips, Paddles, Canes, Spankingetc.):
I have a array of whips, paddles, canes, straps and other devices for the purposes of corporal punishment. Some, such as the soft suede cat, can be swung with great gusto yet leave no residual, if any, marking. Others, such as the cane, must be used with great care as the risk of marking or causing injury with these is high. Of course, submissive may enjoy the heavy-handed use of a cane and delight in the marks made by it. It is important prior to commencing your session that you communicate accurately with the Domme the level of corporal punishment you require. These levels, of course, can vary during the course of your session - this is where our ‘code words' (green, amber & red) are particularly useful.
For those new to receiving or delivering corporal punishment please remember that in EVERY case it is essential to prepare the flesh to minimise the risk of injury and marking. A good 10 minutes of light surface spanking with lots of rubbing and squeezing until the area is pink and warm to the touch indicates that the area is ready for a light to medium session. More preparation time is needed for submissives who require a heavy session.
Of course if the submissive does not wish to have a warm up and wishes to proceed immediately into a heavy session it is entirely their choice. Generally if they are at this stage they are well and truly aware of the consequences and do not mind.
With all levels of corporal punishment special care MUST be taken to avoid some areas of the body. These areas encase delicate organs and will be either avoided completely or treated with due care.
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Very Dangerous areas include:
The Lower Back - The kidneys are attached directly to the muscle and can be easily bruised or injured.
The Spine - Every tiny millimeter of the spine should be avoided - including the tailbone (the beginning of your bum crack or ‘coin slot' as some people like to refer it).
The Neck - The neck and surrounding areas should always be avoided.
Hip Sides - Care should be exercised during a vigorous flogging of the bottom not to allow ‘whip wrap' to occur. The sides of the hips have many nerves - not to mention bone close to the surface.
The Face - Caution should always be exercised here. Although the face is a popular area for striking or slapping as part of humiliation it is extremely delicate with so many fine bones close to the surface. Careful negotiation between a Domme and a sub prior to commencement of a session will ascertain whether this activity is acceptable and to what degree. Some subs, whilst they enjoy a good and heavy spanking, will vehemently dislike a slap on the face - no matter how light!
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Moderately dangerous areas include:
The Penis, Scrotum - Great care should be exercised with these areas. The soft suede whip is the safest choice and should be used extremely lightly at first to test the tolerance of the submissive. Heavier implements can be gradually introduced throughout the session at the consent of the submissive.
The Upper Back - The upper back (on either side of the spine) is usually protected by dense muscle. Flexible devices (leather and rubber) should be the first choice for use in this area. Avoidance or special care should be taken with paddles and canes as there are also bones close to the surface which may be easily bruised by these inflexible implements.
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Safe areas include:
Ass or Bottom - This area is well padded and is the most popular area for corporal punishment. The ass is an erogenous zone and is therefore a natural choice - as well as being delightfully round and pleasing to the touch for the Domme.
Thighs - As is the ass, this area is also well padded. However your submissive may require that you avoid this area if they are worried about telltale marks being seen - especially in summertime when they are often wearing shorts.
Breasts & Chests - Breasts and chests are mostly fatty tissue whilst the nipple and surrounding area contains sensitive nerves. Individual people vary tremendously in their sensitivity so it is essential to communicate whether this area will be included in your session prior to commencement.
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Cross Dressing & Sissification (Complete & Partial Transformations):
Cross dressing enthusiasts can have either a partial or complete transformation. The degree to which you would like to be transformed is completely your choice. Some cross dressers are happy to dress themselves and apply their own makeup and then begin their session once they have completed this. Others prefer a Mistress to be in attendance at all times throughout the transformation as part of their overall session. Please advise Me of your requirements prior to coming.
Once you have undergone your transformation to your desired level think about what you would like next. Are you now a sissy slut that should be treated as such? Should we don our strap-on? Should I incorporate other aspects of anal play into your session? Are you now a lesbian who wants to play girly lesbian games with me? Do you require full instruction in all aspects of sissyfication (i.e. deportment & presentation)? Or do you simply want to be dressed and act in your own manner?
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I am, of course, happy to oblige in whatever you choose.
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Anal Play (Strap-ons, Dildos, Vibrators, Butt Plugs, Fingering, Fisting):
Having a Mistress don a strap-on and use it on you is another extremely popular activity. I have 2 strap-ons. 1 is extremely life-like to the touch and feel but is medium/large -sized and therefore may be a little uncomfortable for some people to take and I have a double ender so We/we both can have sum fun.
You may prefer other forms of anal play other than a strap-on. I have varying sizes of dildos and vibrators and butt plug available as well as. Or you may just prefer a finger or even a fist (gloves are always used!).
There are some inherent dangers with anal fisting that you should be aware of before you try it. The tissue in the rectum (anal passage) is very delicate and can easily be torn. A great deal of time and care (as well as plenty of lubrication) is needed in order to achieve the end result. You may need to embark on a series of ‘anal stretching' before you are ready to take a fist. I will certainly not force the issue and if there is too much resistance or discomfort for you I will not continue for the well-being of your health. If this is something that you would like to partake in then you do so at your own risk.
If you are interested in any forms of anal play please try to have a clean and clear passage prior to commencement. A full bowel has an extremely unpleasant odour when objects are inserted and removed afterwards. There is also an increased risk in breaching hygiene standards. Go to the toilet and empty the bowel prior to your session.
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HYGIENE is of paramount importance:
I always exercise the upmost in hygiene standards. No item (including fingers) are ever inserted into any orifice without first being covered with a condom or latex gloves. If I am inserting dildos, vibrators or butt plugs into any orifice I always ensure that they are covered with a condom first and lubricant applied prior to insertion. Condoms are carefully removed and disposed of so as to not touch any other surface and a fresh condom applied before insertion into another orifice. I always wear latex gloves for these purposes and also for fingering or fisting.
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Bondage & Discipline:
There are several forms of bondage. Some of these are:
Rope: The most popular form of bondage. Rope bondage ranges from simple wrist and ankle restraint right through to elaborate ‘rope art' which incorporates the entire body.
Leather: Comfortable leather wrist and ankle cuffs are especially convenient for those who definitely cannot risk any telltale signs afterwards. Leather bondage also comes in a variety of other straps, sheaths or harnesses for other parts of the body and slings and spines which are a series of leather straps which encase the entire body.
Metal: The most common being hand cuffs but also can include ankle shackles, chastity belts
Plastic Wrap: Akin to mummification by glad wrap (with breathing holes of course).
Collars: Are very popular for denoting one's position as a submissive and putting them in that ‘frame of mind'. These are mostly made from leather or metals and can either be lockable or free-release. They should always have a D ring for the purposes of attaching a leash or hooking on to any other implement or device of the Domme's choice.
Blindfolds: Leather blindfolds or even silk scarves serve the purpose.
Gags: Ball gags, flat ball gags, pipe gags - there is no need for any explanation.
Other forms of corporal punishment as well as verbals and chastisement for wrongdoings by the submissive (whether real or fabricated). The submissive either gratefully or begrudgingly accepts the discipline in the knowledge that it is ultimately for their ‘own good or betterment'.
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Cock & Ball Torture:
There are various devices and methods used for cock and ball torture.
Some of these include:
Hot Wax & Ice
Whipping, Strapping & Slapping
Trampling
Insertion of Objects
Rope & Twine Bondage
Pinching, Stretching & Twisting
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Nipple Torture:
There are an array of clamps available which are perfect for nipple torture:
Adjustable Clamps: Can be tensioned to suit a person's individual pain threshold (light-medium).
Peg Clamps: Pretty much your standard clothes peg (medium).
Teeth Clamps: Give a nasty sting (heavy).
Other forms of nipple torture may include:
Hot Wax & Ice
Whipping, Strapping & Slapping
Pinching, Stretching & Twisting
Biting
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Golden Showers (Water Sports):
For some the feel, look and taste of warm urine gushing from their Mistress is an absolute delight. Of course, it is not compulsory to drink the golden nectar from your Mistress. Some are happy to just have their body or part of their body showered.
Whether you want to come to Mistress Bella's Stable purely for a golden shower only, or have a golden shower incorporated into your session - the choice is yours. Whilst it is not compulsory it is advisable for you to telephone ahead a half hour in advance so that I may ‘drink up' and have a full bladder upon your arrival.
Note: Medical research states that urine is sterile and safe for consumption. In fact urine can actually be very good for you as it contains a high concentration of vitamins and minerals which can be readily re-used by your body. There are some cultures who customarily drink their own urine as they have belief systems which extol the virtues of this act. However it is still best to exercise a degree of caution with golden showers.
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Body Worshipping:
Quite simply this is where the sub worships the Domme's body or any part of Her body. Body worshipping can also include articles of clothing such as Her magnificent feet encased in boots or stilettos. The sub may be directed to use any part of their body in order to worship the Domme but the most common worshipping tool is definitely the tongue!!!
Most sessions incorporate some degree of body worshipping. It can form more (or less) of the session depending upon individual tastes and desires.
Of course it goes without saying that prior agreement is negotiated as to which parts of the Domme's body the submissive wishes or is permitted to worship.
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Humiliation (Public and/or Private):
There are different levels of humiliation in a variety of different settings. These are:
Verbal - Verbal humiliation can be very intense. Enthusiasts may require a blend of verbal humiliation and display humiliation or by either of these on their own. The submissive is subjected to varying levels of verbal scorn, ridicule and contempt by the Domme.
Display (Private) - The Domme displays the sub in such a manner so as to effect an unhindered view of any embarrassing part of the sub's body or activity they are performing. This may be achieved through discipline or the threat of discipline alone or through dressing, caging, binding or trussing the sub in a manner to support this. Humiliation of the submissive may also be achieved through various activities as directed by the Dom (with, of course, prior consultation with the sub as to what activities are acceptable). The sub's body and actions are subjected to the inspection and scrutiny (and sometimes ridicule) by the Domme.
Display (Semi-Public) - As above, however all the other Mistresses, submissives,may also bear witness to the submissive's humiliation - as well as actively participate if they wish.
Display (Full Public) - Again the same scenario applies as above except this is for the ‘heavy' humiliation enthusiast. I will make you available for open days and other events (in-house or at any other location) where anyone may see you. They may whisper and snicker or laugh thunderously at you.
Concealed or Discreet - The sub may be taken into a public setting such as a restaurant or café with the Domme and have any manner of concealed bondage or devices in place under their clothing. The Domme may make reference to these facts at any stage. The Domme may reveal these secrets to whomever they deem suitable to also be privy to this knowledge. In this same public setting the Domme may also have particular ‘code' words which discreetly call the sub into some manner of service to the Domme. The sub may find this particularly embarrassing but nonetheless must comply.
Shopping & Beauty - The sub may be required to shop for a particular item of clothing (i.e. lingerie, corsets, high-heeled shoes, makeup, wigs) and be directed to make it known that the item is being purchased for their own personal use. This may also include an appointment to have beautiful false nails applied or even a professional makeup application.
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Sensory Deprivation:
Quite simply this means restricting the submissive's ability to use their senses - whether it be sight, hearing, touch, smell or even taste during play.
Mild forms of sensory deprivation include blindfolds, gags and hoods. Heavier sensory deprivation enthusiasts may like to try our heavy duty latex body bag with internal arm restraints. This body bag has the gasmask type head piece which can be easily blocked by the Domme to also control the subs breathing.
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Wrestling:
Your wrestling partner may be dressed in lingerie or leotards. For your safety I do not wear high heeled boots or shoes during wrestling sessions. You wouldn't want to have an eye gouged out by accident just because you liked the look of your savage Dominatrix in stilettos!
You can opt to wrestle on a bed if you prefer for very light sessions, but extra care will need to be taken to not fall from the bed or cause damage to any item in the room.
Wrestling sessions are strictly by appointment only. They are extremely physical and therefore have a higher price. Your Mistress, more often than not, will have to completely re-do her hair and makeup after a wrestling session which, of course, takes extra time.
*Remember that, even though your Mistress may be extremely strong for a female, you are to always allow Her to win - even though you believe at times you may be able to overpower Her. These are the rules of wrestling!!!!!!
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Other:
Also specialised and sometimes extended sessions include the submissive being trained and/or required for the following tasks:
These sessions more often than not involve being ‘muted' and sometimes even motionless.
Canine/puppy Training
Equestrian/pony Training
Footstool
Seat/Table
Ashtray
Statue
Clothes Hanger
Table Decoration
French Maid
Masseur
Public Display
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